Kelsey Upton was able to face the young man who reportedly put her contact information on a pornographic website during a recent hearing of the commandment board of The Citadel in Charleston, S.C. where he is a cadet.

“Kelsey did great,” said her father, Oxford resident Randy Upton. “I am very proud of her…”

While the cadet apologized for his actions, he has not been formally charged, since the pornographic picture he posted with Kelsey’s contact information was not of her. Because the image was not of 17-year-old Kelsey, no laws have been broken, but the Upton family is working to make sure those laws change and no other teen has to suffer they way Kelsey has.

The cadet has not been identified, but the board at the prestigious military school will decide if he should be punished for his actions. You can read about the Uptons here.