In a recent MSNBC "Lean In" commercial, Tulane professor and network commentator Melissa Harris-Perry said this about traditional parenthood:"We have a private notion of children, your kid is yours and totally your responsibility. We haven't had a very collective notion of these are our children," meaning the whole community. We encourage the fact that the whole community should work together to provide a safe place for children to learn and grow; we don't accept the fact that all of the children of our community are not the main responsibility of their parents to ensure that they are raised